FAKTOR KRISIS RUMAH TANGGA DI NEGARA BRUNEI DARUSSALAM
Factors Contributing to Marriage and Relationship Breakdown in Brunei Darussalam
Abstract
Abstract: Bahagian Khidmat Nasihat Keluarga (BKNK) offers family advice to couples facing domestic crises, with the aim of reducing the divorce rate and helping couples resolve family issues using Islamic family knowledge. However, the divorce rate continues to increase annually in Brunei Darussalam. This study qualitatively examines the factors contributing to domestic crises and analyzes the statistics of domestic crisis complaints received by BKNK. The study identifies "incomprehension" and "neglect of responsibility" as the dominant factors in Brunei Darussalam. While BKNK has played a role in handling domestic crises by creating awareness through the Pre-Marriage Course, the study recommends the establishment of a Post-Marriage Course to promote harmonious Islamic family institutions. Furthermore, the establishment of a panel on the social studies of Muslims is recommended to survey the true causes of married couples' disagreements. This study aims to contribute to reducing the divorce rate in Brunei Darussalam by highlighting the importance of understanding the factors contributing to domestic crises and promoting Islamic family values.
Keywords: Divorce; Domestic Crisis; Family Institution; Islamic Family Knowledge
Abstrak: Bahagian Khidmat Nasihat Keluarga (BKNK) menawarkan nasihat keluarga kepada pasangan yang mengalami krisis rumah tangga, dengan tujuan mengurangkan kadar perceraian dan membantu pasangan menyelesaikan isu keluarga dengan pengetahuan keluarga Islam. Namun, kadar perceraian terus meningkat setiap tahun di Brunei Darussalam. Kajian ini secara kualitatif mengkaji faktor yang menyumbang kepada krisis keluarga dan menganalisis statistik aduan krisis keluarga yang diterima oleh BKNK. Kajian mengenal pasti "ketidakfahaman" dan "pengabaian tanggungjawab" sebagai faktor utama di Brunei Darussalam. Walaupun BKNK memainkan peranan dalam menangani krisis keluarga dengan meningkatkan kesedaran melalui Kursus Pra-Perkahwinan, kajian mengesyorkan penubuhan Kursus Pasca-Perkahwinan untuk menggalakkan institusi keluarga Islam yang harmoni. Selain itu, penubuhan panel kajian sosial umat Islam disyorkan untuk mengkaji punca sebenar perselisihan antara pasangan yang berkahwin. Kajian ini bertujuan untuk menyumbang kepada pengurangan kadar perceraian di Brunei Darussalam dengan menekankan kepentingan memahami faktor yang menyumbang kepada krisis keluarga dan menggalakkan nilai-nilai keluarga Islam.
Kata kunci: Penceraian; Krisis domestik; Institusi Keluarga; Pengetahuan keluarga Islam
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